Flagrant opinion as in "marriage isn't really a big deal," or "multiple partners are just fine, maaaan." I'm yet to meet any Episcopalians with authority that doesn't hold a very high view of marriage. And as to mutual respect, Episcopalians almost over emphasize service to others. I see the Episcopal Church losing the old folks (and yes, it's the old folks) who have no sense of tradition whatsoever. The Gospel without old money tape will come around again. It'll take a bit, but the seeds of it are in there. I've seen it first hand.